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You hold your family together. Your energy seems boundless; your commitment is palpable. I was convinced that you could do no more and then you agreed to become a family member caregiver.. Now your work is never finished. When she cries out to you in the middle and you respond, with patience and kindness. We call you a family caregiver but this label doesn’t feel quite right—you say you are a mother, wife, sister and daughter first. It is clear that caregiving is in your soul, but it does not define you.
You are tenacious but humble. You ask for nothing in return for your efforts but your face lights up to small gestures of gratitude. You demonstrate compassion in the face of constant exhaustion. You cook, clean, transport, and translate. You reconcile and administer medicines, pay bills, act as health care proxy and power of attorney. You maintain a career despite spending as many hours each week managing family and coordinating care as you do at work. You prove that grace is not just a word but a state of being.
Increasingly, you compromise taking care of yourself, always putting others first. Your fatigue has led to poor eating habits and weight loss. You are becoming more isolated from friends and family. You recently expressed your loneliness and I am concerned about what that implies. You will always trade things most precious to you in favor of those you love, who always seem to need more.
You and 44 million of your fellow caregivers around the country are the foundation of our healthcare system, providing over $500 billion each year of uncompensated care. Without that commitment, our very society would be in peril. As Americans, we all owe you a debt of gratitude.
I am proud to know you. Thank you for your service to our country.
Thomas P. Riley
Chief Executive Officer and President Seniorlink
This is a letter I received, and would like to extend it to all my caregiver friends. When we think about being a caregiver for a family member, most jump right in, without thinking of all the responsibilities and yes, the work it takes to care for a medical family member. It is over whelming at times, but we just keep going.
I would like to reach out to all caregivers and give them a big hug and say you are doing a very selfless act of kindness. The world needs more people like YOU!!!!!
I have met so many wonderful caregiver's though Facebook groups. Sometimes you need to talk with someone you don't know. To be able to relate to your circumstances when you have no more gas in the tank.
This is my daughter Lauren, I am her craregiver. This picture was taken last November, at the International Miami Book Fair. I am her number one cheerleader at all times, and I can say that she is mine when I need it.
After we returned home from this trip, Lauren went into heart failure.
We spent the next six months in the hospital, waiting for Lauren's second heart transplant plus a kidney transplant.
Our book "Strength in a Heartbeat, Diary of a Heart Transplant" is our story of living on the heart transplant list in the hospital, then needing a LVAD to transplant. We wanted to help other people understand what life is like living in the hospital on the transplant list.
To all Caregiver's please always remember how special you are.
If you find you need to talk, remember Facebook has some very compassionate, caring groups out there. I belong to quite a few. Sometimes they help me and then there are times when I can help someone.
Happy National Caregiver's Month
Strength in a Heartbeat, Diary of a Heart Transplant
Read our personal journey on the heart transplant list